This evening at Gavi's school they're having a middle school dance/social for the students, combined with a social for the parents in a different wing of the same building (the middle and upper school share a building, so they can have both events there but still have some separation). I was seriously considering going and even set my alarm clock and got up early. I figured it might be nice to see some of the other parents. Then I realized that one or more of them might actually try to talk to me or something, so I decided it would be best if I stayed home. Susan and Gavi went.